Not keeping the baby. Should I tell him I'm pregnant? Please read first!?

Honey, I am so sorry that you've had to make such a heart wrenching decision, but it does sound like it really is your only option. Bottom line is that this is YOUR body, and YOUR decision, especially considering the father turned out to be a low life. If he isn't a part of your life anymore then he doesn't need to know. However, if telling him would relieve any of your pain, then that is what you should do. I think you already know in your heart what the right thing to do would be. Don't listen to the moral police, and instead listen to your gut. Good luck and take care. When the time is right, you will be a mother.