Help, jerky guy and a friend and i dont know what to do?

She didn't "lose" her virginity to him. She knew right where it was and she gave it away. At no time did she lose track of it. You can help her by refusing to look at her as a victim. You can help her understand that we all make mistakes and he was one of them. She can refuse the call, hang up the phone, block him, remove him, exclude him and refuse him. A woman makes choices. If she keeps making the same stupid ones you cannot pity her. She can be victim or survivor but she can't keep getting sympathy for stupidity.